The art of getting everything whatever you want or somewhat like your desire is tough enough but I share my experience as I think that the thing whatever you are having along with you your lovely family, your love, your community, and the service what you provide to the benefit of people and the values you provide to community which don't make you feel alive is the best gift you have If we imply an art form the things you create from your clear imagination is the best gift which makes you feel stunning. Firstly select the priority which you enjoy most and apply full energy with full heart to achieve your goal life is bigger and the one experience each moment or we can say ups and down they enjoy the life in the best way.
Life is not something that you do good and feel that you are happy it is something that is made by God to live it every aspect and keep you happy. And share happiness with social life is bigger and the social consciousness and awareness bring closer to community life are made not for dying its an experience that can make you feel happy and the one who survives in the life is the real champion of life. life is great to make most of it. Happiness in life does not come by feeling its come by your action only.and the helping hand which can make someone more educated and self-reliance. It would be naive to suggest that anyone can do absolutely anything they want. There are far too many variables that come into play.
That said, it’s also not too far away from the truth. Most of the things that hold people back from getting what they want are imagined. Excuses like lacking talent or time can be real, of course, but they’re often not.
The real problem is generally a lack of focus, long-term dedication, and an unwillingness to sacrifice something good for something great.
You can’t quite have everything that you want, and that’s a given.
You can’t have every movie you make be considered a masterpiece while also making a new one every year or so. You can’t decide that you want to be someone who is open to every new project, while still hoping that you can make exponential progress in the one area that really matters.
The trade-offs always exist. Yet, if you have strong selection filters, and if you can get comfortable with the idea of committing to just one or two things for an extended period of time, then there is practically nothing you can’t do.
It’s almost impossible not to make a breakthrough in something that becomes a singular commitment. Most people just aren’t comfortable with that idea.
Another way to put it is like this — the chances are that you can have anything you want, but that also means you can’t have everything you want.
Your life is shaped by what you say “no” to. Reject wisely.
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VISUALIZATION
Okay, so you wrote down a list of your goals and the types of things you’re going to accomplish this year. Great start, but that’s not enough. At the beginning of last year I separated my goals by category; from health and fitness to finance and social media goals, I wrote down where I wanted to be in each department by now. To make this process easier (and more fun) for you, I’ve created a fill in the blanks spreadsheet chart to organize your 2018 goals you can download for free here. Next, you need to turn these charted goals into a vision board. This step is essential for staying motivated and on track throughout the year. Choose photos to represent each goal that you can look at every day on your vision board and be constantly reminded of what you’re truly striving for. For example, my 2017 vision board included photos of Europe (I made it my goal to travel around Europe before the year ended and I did!) and a beautifully decorated home office (I wanted to take the leap into going full time with my business and I did that too!). I also added a couple of photos of some of my biggest role models to keep me inspired as well.
Print your photos and DIY your vision board (this is the fun part) so that you can hang it up somewhere where you will see it everything single day. Having a visual representation constantly in view will remind you always what you’re working towards and keep you motivated.
PRIORITIZE YOUR RELATIONSHIPS
They say it’s not what you know but WHO you know and that remains to be 100% accurate. Sometimes it doesn’t matter how hard you work, if you don’t have the network or good relationships, your shot at success will be significantly more difficult. If you’re a talented musician working hard in your room constantly writing songs and producing amazing music but you don’t network at events or you don’t engage on social media, don’t be surprised when you’re releasing your next track to the sound of crickets. Maybe you really want to move up the ladder at your corporate job but you don’t get along with your co-workers and your boss doesn’t really know you that well. Let’s work to change that!
Prioritizing networking and maintaining strong relationships is absolutely essential to achieving the best things and it has probably been the leading factor to my personal success so far. If you can, make it a point to check out a networking event at least once a month to build a few new connections. Challenge yourself to compliment every single person you interact within a day. Surprise a co-worker or acquaintance with an extra coffee and croissant you picked up. Cold email and reach out to LinkedIn connects or brands you’re interested in partnering with or speaking to. Whatever you gotta do, put people first, make the value you offer known, and show that you care. The human mind is the most powerful computer in the world. Every single day, it processes upwards of 60,000 thoughts, and it autonomously controls millions of separate functions that are happening in the body at any given moment. While it's tasked with a lot to do, it also knows how to prioritize and categorize what you really want.
It has a funny way of either playing out our fears or making our wildest dreams come true. And the psychic apparatus — coined by the late father of modern psychology, Sigmund Freud — is in the driver’s seat.
In effect, there are 3 parts that are at play here:
- The Id — The id is the most basal and instinctive part of the mind. It’s where our selfish survival comes from. It’s what creates the pre-programmed urges to eat and sleep, while also acting as the source of sexual drive. When a person lives life and makes decisions primarily based on the id, they tend to do what they want, when they want, and without fear of repercussions — acts, as we all know, that can lead to a great deal of pain.
- The Superego — The superego is what helps to keep us in check. It helps to counterbalance the id. It’s the morals and scruples that are developed through society, community, religion, and upbringing. It’s the angel on our shoulders, while the id can oftentimes be likened to the devil on the other side. When the superego is strong, it tends to keep us out of trouble, make us more patient, and even more empathetic to the world around us.
- The Ego — The ego is the referee. It helps us get what we want in life within the confines of reality. It knows that we can’t just have what we want all the time. So it tries to fulfill those underlying desires with whatever tools we have access to today, such as money, relationships, time, and any other resources.
The resultant interaction of the three parts in our mind helps to determine the outcome of our behaviors and the resultant quality and direction of our lives. It takes our input and produces an output that tries to satisfy each of the separate parts of the mind. This, as you might guess, has an enormous impact on the types of things we attract into our lives.
The problem? Much of this interaction occurs in the subconscious realm of the mind, not in the conscious one. It’s similar to warring factions that are battling it out in favor of one thing or another. The difficulty? We aren’t privy to much of this was taking place within the subconscious mind. The fighting factions are doing so largely on their own, battle after battle.
Sometimes, when you feel heavily conflicted about something, unable to make a decision, or torn between different choices, it’s because of the three-part psychic apparatus each trying to get what it wants. The id wants what it wants, and so do the other parts. For a person on a diet, for example, the id beckons us for that piece of chocolate cake or a hamburger and french fries, while the superego tries to reason for us to eat sensibly.
Then you have the ego, in the middle of the two, but it also wants to give you what you want. It looks for fast and easy ways to lose weight because it knows that, within reality, it has to find us ways to get what we want. That’s why fad diets and other weight-loss crazes become so popular. The ego reasons that it’s the best method for helping satisfy both the id and the superego.
Similarly, for the person trying to get rich quick or make any other decision such as get out of heavy indebtedness, the same infighting occurs. Or, a person struggling to decide whether to stay in a relationship and do what’s best for the kids, or leave, cheat, get divorced, or do any number of different things. It all boils down to the upshot of the battles being waged in the mind.
But, when we can step back and look at things in perspective and analyze our emotions and resultant behaviors, we can begin to understand where our life’s choices are coming from. This conscious awareness of the process can help us part of the way, but it won’t do it all for us. The importance of this discussion is to understand the complexities that are occurring which are attracting the things into our lives that we tend to be produced on an ongoing basis.
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